after break-up -- "lovers to friends" agree?
well am trying to figure out why am doin' this stuff right now.
'coz there's no other thing i can do at this moment and am so freakin' bored just reading comments and like some pictures i've seen on fb.
it's already 7 o'clock in the evening and it sucks thinking that i didn't finish anything yet for what am supposed to do for today. lmao.
oh wait. there's a melody playin' now on mah mp3... the hell why it's the love song that i hate most? but why i still have it on the list? hmmm... you wanna know why?
it's a typical love story where some people can also relate. It's about 2 persons who started as friends and used to fell in love with each other.. they get into the relationship but since they cant work it out anymore they choose to remain as friends again. typical huh?
are you agree on "lovers to friends" situation? dang. to tell you honestly, that's a talk shit.
how can you make friends again to the person you used to love? especially after the break up? that's what we called "stupidity".
the breaker will said, "hope we can still be friends after this." then the stupid person will say, "yes sure.no problem... friends?" but deep inside .. they're just tryin' to hide and the truth ... they wanna cry out loud.
we can consider that old lovers can also be friends but not after the break-up tho. maybe after few weeks, months and sometimes after years... it depends when the brokenheart accept the reality and ready to face again the so called "EX's".
let's say you choose to make friends again but think of it, can you accept the fact that everytime you see him/her talking other girls/guys you don't have the right anymore to say you're dying 'coz you're jealous? and you can't say anymore how much you still love him/her 'coz what you are right now are just "friends". sounds jerk. begging someone to love you again. don't beg... especially girls to guys 'coz they will make you feel more just like a piece of dirt. believe me.
remember, it hurts more knowing that he/she choose to be with you again 'coz of guilt and not becoz he/she really loves you. Guilt of hurting you and makes you cry. What's the point of lying and pretending it's fine to makes friends with your ex if it kills you from time to time.
Love takes time. And it takes more time to heal brokenhearts depends on how deep your relationship was... If you wanna be a big dumb staying with someone who dont love you anymore then get on this situation. But if I were you. I'd rather go and just wait for the time where you can already say: "hello, do i know you?" but that's for a bitter one. Just be nice and say: "hey, how are you? you look so damn desperate after breakin' up with me huh. well, just drool coz am not a fool anymore" then laugh. that's it. rofl.
Be a better person and believe that you can be much happier whoever will come on your way again.
"just wait but never expect, LOVE will find you on its most magical way" =P
nytnyt everyone. thanx for readin'...
*basag -.-
2011/6/6
