Saturday, April 27, 2013

"TULONG"

Kaibigan, alam mo ba ang salitang "TULONG"?
May araw ba sa buhay mo na hindi ka nangailangan nito?
Kaibigan, sino ka kaya saknila?

*May 2 klase ng taong humihingi ng tulong
1.1 Yung talagang gipit o nangangailangan
1.2. Gusto lang makalamang sa kapwa (yung kaya naman pero tamad lang o gusto kabig lang ng kabig, vacuum ang tawag sknla)

**May 2 klase ng taong tumutulong
2.1 Tumutulong pero kailangan may kapalit ("sus wala yun" pero nageexpect?)
- tumutulong pero kung makakwento naman sa iba wagas para lang masabi na "ang bait mo pala" , o may maipagmayabang lang na may natulungan ka.
2.2 Tumutulong na bukal sa loob nya kahit walang kapalit (may tao pa bang ganto?)

***May 2 klase ng taong ayaw tumulong
3.1 Ayaw kasi wala naman syang mapapala kung tutulungan ka nya
- eto ung mga taong ang laging linya "wala eh, sensya n" (kahit meron o kahit kaya naman)
- sino ka ba para tulungan nya? may maibabayad ka ba? hindi mo naman sya natulungan noon kaya sino ka para tulungan ka nya ngayon? at higit sa lahat, "close kayo?"

3.2 Ayaw dahil posible na maungusan mo sya kung tutulungan ka nya.
- mga takot mabawasan ang kaalaman o kayamanan.

Sa panahon ngayon, hindi na natin alam kung sino talaga ang tao na dapat natin tulungan. Pero bakit kailangan mo pa kwestyonin yun? Kung ikaw si 2.2, kahit ang taong tinulungan mo ay si 1.2 , hindi ka maghihinayang. Bakit? Kasi ang mahalaga nakatulong ka. Hindi mo na problema kung nilamangan ka, konsensya na nya yun (kung meron man). Ang mahalaga, tumulong ka ng bukal sa puso mo. Aba dagdag points din kay San Pedro yan. Ngayon, kung ikaw naman si 2.1, 3.1 at 3.2 , mahiya ka naman sa sarili mo. Darating at darating ang panahon (hindi man sa ngayon) na mangangailangan ka rin ng tulong mula sa kapwa mo. Mararamdaman at mararamdaman maging si 1.1.

Bilog ang mundo. Kada araw sa buhay ng tao may pagbabago. Ikaw man ang nakakaangat ngayon, maaaring bukas o sa makalawa ikaw naman ang may kailangan ng tulong nya. Kung ikaw si 1.1, wag mawalan ng pag-asa. wala mang taong gustong tumulong sa'yo sa ngayon, kapit lang! sa 1M tao sa mundo, may isang 2.2 na inilaan para umangat ka. Pero wag aabuso ha, matuto din magsumikap at baka maging si 1.2 ka na... Tandaan, walang ibang pwedeng mkatulong sayo kundi ang sarili mo. Kung patuloy kang aasa sa kapwa mo, walang mangyayari sayo. Patuloy kang magiging si 1.1. Kaya matuto kang "Mangarap. Magsumikap. Magtyaga." Pag nagawa mo yan panigurado, aangat ka. At kapag ikaw naman na ang nasa itaas, wag kakalimutan maging si 2.2 ha. Kung lahat ng tao sa mundo ay gaya ni 2.2, wala ng magiging 1.1. Tama? Ika nga ng uso ngayon, Isip isip din pag may time. :)

Inuulit ko, kaibigan, sino ka saknila?

Monday, June 6, 2011

I don't wanna be your friend


after break-up -- "lovers to friends" agree?

well am trying to figure out why am doin' this stuff right now.
'coz there's no other thing i can do at this moment and am so freakin' bored just reading comments and like some pictures i've seen on fb.

it's already 7 o'clock in the evening and it sucks thinking that i didn't finish anything yet for what am supposed to do for today. lmao.

oh wait. there's a melody playin' now on mah mp3... the hell why it's the love song that i hate most? but why i still have it on the list? hmmm... you wanna know why?

it's a typical love story where some people can also relate. It's about 2 persons who started as friends and used to fell in love with each other.. they get into the relationship but since they cant work it out anymore they choose to remain as friends again. typical huh?

are you agree on "lovers to friends" situation? dang. to tell you honestly, that's a talk shit.
how can you make friends again to the person you used to love? especially after the break up? that's what we called "stupidity".

the breaker will said, "hope we can still be friends after this." then the stupid person will say, "yes sure.no problem... friends?" but deep inside .. they're just tryin' to hide and the truth ... they wanna cry out loud.

we can consider that old lovers can also be friends but not after the break-up tho. maybe after few weeks, months and sometimes after years... it depends when the brokenheart accept the reality and ready to face again the so called "EX's".

let's say you choose to make friends again but think of it, can you accept the fact that everytime you see him/her talking other girls/guys you don't have the right anymore to say you're dying 'coz you're jealous? and you can't say anymore how much you still love him/her 'coz what you are right now are just "friends". sounds jerk. begging someone to love you again. don't beg... especially girls to guys 'coz they will make you feel more just like a piece of dirt. believe me.

remember, it hurts more knowing that he/she choose to be with you again 'coz of guilt and not becoz he/she really loves you. Guilt of hurting you and makes you cry. What's the point of lying and pretending it's fine to makes friends with your ex if it kills you from time to time.

Love takes time. And it takes more time to heal brokenhearts depends on how deep your relationship was... If you wanna be a big dumb staying with someone who dont love you anymore then get on this situation. But if I were you. I'd rather go and just wait for the time where you can already say: "hello, do i know you?" but that's for a bitter one. Just be nice and say: "hey, how are you? you look so damn desperate after breakin' up with me huh. well, just drool coz am not a fool anymore" then laugh. that's it. rofl.

Be a better person and believe that you can be much happier whoever will come on your way again.
"just wait but never expect, LOVE will find you on its most magical way" =P

nytnyt everyone. thanx for readin'...


*basag -.-
2011/6/6

Monday, January 31, 2011

Runaway Groom

I watched this movie last Saturday evening. 
At first, I thought it's kinda corny but later on I found myself smiling
and enjoying it... then on the part that Irene and Apollo were stuck on a shelter 'coz of the rain,.. I didn't notice my tears started to fell down... 

I felt how hard it is for Irene to be left on the very special day where all girls wishing for.. just be'coz of.. UNSURE groom...cowardness! very pathetic reason... tsk tsk tsk..

if you're not sure with yourself on getting married.. then don't propose.. and never ask for marriage.
don't think that after all those pain you gave to someone.. he/she can still love u and forget all the sad things 
in a just a blink of an eye. of couse, we have to work on it ... oh oh.. lemme rephrase it.. 

If you're not sure with yourself, then don't ask! right???

Sunday, January 30, 2011

bye diaries

I dunno why am makin' this blog right now...
it's already late and kinda sleepy but after reading mah friends' blogs...
it turns me out into something... i wanna have one!

am writing a diary from elementary times til college.
About more than 10 thick notebooks.. back en fort.. 
more than hundreds of black pen.. (panda, lotus, etc etc.)
i consider it as mah bestfriend.. where i can keep even mah lil secrets...
everyday updates... happy and sad moments that i want to keep forever...

but i didn't notice that I already stopped. I got busy on my work 
found new friends whom i can tell then everythin' i wanna say. 

then, one afternoon..as i woke up i smell somethin' that was burnin'....
damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!! those are my diaries!!!
mah mom used it as "PAMPARINGAS" !!!
all memories i wrote for 14yrs turns out into ASH...

i dunno what to do.. should i get angry with my mom?
nahhh... it's non-sense and useless... all mah diaries were burnt.
i just said i know there's a reason why it happened... and i will know.. as time goes by. 

now it answered mah question...why am writing this blog...
or why i signed up to have a blog site...
writing on diaries are not good...just kiddin'... of course it is! 
But i found writing on blogs are more convenient..
aside from considering that am faster on typing than writing. LOL

i dont need to buy notebooks and pens.. I dont need to keep it on mah drawer 
where it occupies more space than mah clothes..  
so, i WELCOME myself here! and expect more blogs for you to read.. 
and hopefully, it'll make sense.. got to sleep now.. wan an, zai jian! ^_^*